Mike
we have alot less sex, she found out about a week and half or 2 weeks ago, and shes been using it as an excuse ever since, i didnt think you got all the symptoms right away or if its in her head, shes only been pregnant for about a month-month and a half.
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1st, you can do oral on her safely AS LONG AS you don't blow any air into her down there. It is rare, but it has happened where an air bubble has harmed a developing fetus, so no blowing air in and it'll be perfectly okay.
2nd, maybe she's just not in the mood. Everyone is not in the mood sometimes, and she just found out she's pregnant. She may feel gross and bloated/fat, have a lot on her mind and sex isn't a top priority right now. Her hormones are going crazy right now, so when she says no, don't take it personally and don't get frustrated with her. There are ways you can try to get her in the mood: a massage, a romantic evening, flowers and candy, and/or telling her just oral with no strings attached. COmpliment her non-stop. Assure her that you think she's the most beautiful women in the world, and she looks exactly the same as she did 2 weeks ago, but it doesn't matter when she does start gaining weight, because you'll still love her and want her just the same. If non of that works, just give her sometime for the adjustment to happen. Give her sometime to wrap her head around the idea that a life is growing inside her, and be understanding when she says no. Not frustrated and/or annoyed with her. Finding out your pregant is HUGE! Every women needs time to make the adjustjment in ther heads to that, and every woman needs their man to remind them that they are beautiful and wanted and loved without feeling its just to get some sex from them.
And 3rd, yes, pregnancy symptoms can happen very soon after getting pregnant, or a few months into the pregnancy. It depends on the woman and the pregnancy. She may be feeling a LOT of them right now, or it could just be in her head. Regardless, be understanding or you belong in the dog house:)
Maybe it'd be a good idea if you did some research on pregnancy. The internet is full of information on it, and if she sees you taking the time to learn more about pregnancy, she'll feel more support from you and probably be happier because of that. They even have websites where they can calculate your due date, show you how the fetus looks with pictures and tell you how her body may change week by week, recipes that are healthy for pregnancy, forums, etc. They have information specifically for dads, telling you ways that can make pregnancy easier and more comfortable for her, ways to feel more connected to her and the fetus, things you'll need to know in the future, etc. Seriously, the internet is packed with info, so take sometime to learnn it for all 3 of you. I know you may be frustrated right now, but once you learn more about what your girlfriend is dealing with, I promise that at least a little of that frustration will go away.
Good luck and thanks for being one of the good guy-or you seem like one anyway, lol:)
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Oh, on the internet you'll also be able to find safe positions, safe things you can do, and maybe even things some pregnant women have liked and disliked during pregnancy, and show it all to her, so she knows you've done your research, actually care about her needs and the safety of the fetus, and aren't just crazy horny! Tell her that WHEN SHE'S READY for sex, you'll be there. Until then, you'll still be there in every other way possible. She'll LOVE that! Trust me.
1st, you can do oral on her safely AS LONG AS you don't blow any air into her down there. It is rare, but it has happened where an air bubble has harmed a developing fetus, so no blowing air in and it'll be perfectly okay.
2nd, maybe she's just not in the mood. Everyone is not in the mood sometimes, and she just found out she's pregnant. She may feel gross and bloated/fat, have a lot on her mind and sex isn't a top priority right now. Her hormones are going crazy right now, so when she says no, don't take it personally and don't get frustrated with her. There are ways you can try to get her in the mood: a massage, a romantic evening, flowers and candy, and/or telling her just oral with no strings attached. COmpliment her non-stop. Assure her that you think she's the most beautiful women in the world, and she looks exactly the same as she did 2 weeks ago, but it doesn't matter when she does start gaining weight, because you'll still love her and want her just the same. If non of that works, just give her sometime for the adjustment to happen. Give her sometime to wrap her head around the idea that a life is growing inside her, and be understanding when she says no. Not frustrated and/or annoyed with her. Finding out your pregant is HUGE! Every women needs time to make the adjustjment in ther heads to that, and every woman needs their man to remind them that they are beautiful and wanted and loved without feeling its just to get some sex from them.
And 3rd, yes, pregnancy symptoms can happen very soon after getting pregnant, or a few months into the pregnancy. It depends on the woman and the pregnancy. She may be feeling a LOT of them right now, or it could just be in her head. Regardless, be understanding or you belong in the dog house:)
Maybe it'd be a good idea if you did some research on pregnancy. The internet is full of information on it, and if she sees you taking the time to learn more about pregnancy, she'll feel more support from you and probably be happier because of that. They even have websites where they can calculate your due date, show you how the fetus looks with pictures and tell you how her body may change week by week, recipes that are healthy for pregnancy, forums, etc. They have information specifically for dads, telling you ways that can make pregnancy easier and more comfortable for her, ways to feel more connected to her and the fetus, things you'll need to know in the future, etc. Seriously, the internet is packed with info, so take sometime to learnn it for all 3 of you. I know you may be frustrated right now, but once you learn more about what your girlfriend is dealing with, I promise that at least a little of that frustration will go away.
Good luck and thanks for being one of the good guy-or you seem like one anyway, lol:)
******
Oh, on the internet you'll also be able to find safe positions, safe things you can do, and maybe even things some pregnant women have liked and disliked during pregnancy, and show it all to her, so she knows you've done your research, actually care about her needs and the safety of the fetus, and aren't just crazy horny! Tell her that WHEN SHE'S READY for sex, you'll be there. Until then, you'll still be there in every other way possible. She'll LOVE that! Trust me.
I am 31+3 pregnant and i alwayss get colds,sore throats and i am run down?
sexiebum
Does anybody else get every bug going and feel completly tired all the time? My baby also is measuring 5 weeks to big and how do you perk yourself up?
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Your immune system is slightly supressed during pregnancy so you will get more colds etc. The only time I've EVER had a cold sore is when I've been pregnant.
I've had the cold for the last 2 months and a horrible hack at the side of my mouth so I totally sympathise.
I'd ignore the what they tell you about the size of the baby. With my first they told me at 34 weeks that he weighed 7 pounds. He as born at 39+1 and weighed 7 pounds 13 - so he only gained 13 ounces in almost 6 weeks - I don't think so!!
I'm already fed-up and I'm not due till June so I know how you feel. Try doing some stuff that you know you won't have time for once your baby's here. Read some books you've always wanted to, try out some new recipes, go and visit a friend you've not seen for a long time. If you're of a crafting disposition how about starting a scrapbook for when you have your baby? You could have a pre-baby pamper day with a friend or sister or someone. Go into town, book some beauty treatments and have a nice long indulgent lunch.
Also I would do an inventory of all your baby stuff and make sure you have everything you'll need for the first 6 weeks or so. With my first, when he was tiny, it took me till after lunchtime before I was even dressed. I was completely disorganised and wished I'd stocked up on nappies, wipes etc. It's also a good idea to do some bulk cooking of easy to heat stuff like soups, bolognese, casseroles etc. then you'll have a supply of healthy meals in the freezer and won't resort to ready-meals and take-aways.
if you haven't already done so, you could find out what kind of mother and baby groups run in your area. it's a good place to have a moan and makes you feel better cos' you're all in the same boat.
Honestly the next few weeks are the last free time you'll have so just kick back and enjoy it. You've only got about 6 weeks to go and it will fly in, believe me!
Good luck.
Your immune system is slightly supressed during pregnancy so you will get more colds etc. The only time I've EVER had a cold sore is when I've been pregnant.
I've had the cold for the last 2 months and a horrible hack at the side of my mouth so I totally sympathise.
I'd ignore the what they tell you about the size of the baby. With my first they told me at 34 weeks that he weighed 7 pounds. He as born at 39+1 and weighed 7 pounds 13 - so he only gained 13 ounces in almost 6 weeks - I don't think so!!
I'm already fed-up and I'm not due till June so I know how you feel. Try doing some stuff that you know you won't have time for once your baby's here. Read some books you've always wanted to, try out some new recipes, go and visit a friend you've not seen for a long time. If you're of a crafting disposition how about starting a scrapbook for when you have your baby? You could have a pre-baby pamper day with a friend or sister or someone. Go into town, book some beauty treatments and have a nice long indulgent lunch.
Also I would do an inventory of all your baby stuff and make sure you have everything you'll need for the first 6 weeks or so. With my first, when he was tiny, it took me till after lunchtime before I was even dressed. I was completely disorganised and wished I'd stocked up on nappies, wipes etc. It's also a good idea to do some bulk cooking of easy to heat stuff like soups, bolognese, casseroles etc. then you'll have a supply of healthy meals in the freezer and won't resort to ready-meals and take-aways.
if you haven't already done so, you could find out what kind of mother and baby groups run in your area. it's a good place to have a moan and makes you feel better cos' you're all in the same boat.
Honestly the next few weeks are the last free time you'll have so just kick back and enjoy it. You've only got about 6 weeks to go and it will fly in, believe me!
Good luck.
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